In the previous post I talked about How to Deal with Hurt, Heart-ache and Loss and this is the second part.
By applying the method taught previously, you’re able to let go of any events, people or things in your past that have been holding you back from moving forward and finding happiness.
But true happiness and success is very difficult to attract if you don’t know what you want from life. I specifically used the word “attract” because happiness and success are not things that you pursue, they are things that you attract into your life by becoming the kind of person that deserves these things.
The problem of our generation seems to be that the majority of us feel lost, confused and are without a sense of purpose. We have no direction in our lives and seem to be floating about aimlessly. Going from relationship to relationship, job to job, day to day, seeking happiness in material possessions.
What kind of satisfaction can you get from spending 8 hours per day sitting in a cubicle? How can you expect to be happy if you’re stressed or depressed?
If you (or someone you know) are unhappy with life… could it be because you don’t have a direction or sense of purpose in life? Because you wake up in the morning with no goal to work towards, idly hoping that lady fortuna will send something good your way?
You may very well have many dreams and desires, but without knowing exactly what you want, you’re not going to be able to work towards it. While it may come as a surprise to you, it’s in fact no wonder that you’re not successful or making progress towards reaching those goals if you don’t know what you want.
- Everything you do should contribute to achieving your goals
- Remember that true happiness comes from within
- Give everything you have your full 100%
To sum up, this section is a summary of the plan you need to follow if you want to find direction in your life and if you want to stop feeling lost or confused:
- You can’t get what you want if you don’t know what you want.
- Define your goals and focus all your actions and energy on getting close to those goals.
- Become the person that attracts happiness and success instead of pursuing them.
- Do what you love doing on a daily basis.
- Give everything that you do 100% effort.
- F.L.A.P. it (Finish Like A Pro).
Last updated on 8.48pm 24/02/2014.
Successful people in society are placed on their right position and direction. The question is... how does one self determine his/her right position and direction?
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, thank you for your feedback. This question will be reviewed and revised until the next post. You may find the answer in my following posts. Depends on my availability. Once again, thank you so much for reading my blog!
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